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Believe in yourself.
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“Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment.”  BuddhaContinue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Glen Brist on Saturday.

I have survived.
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Hello all. I am posting this message to say to survivors, their family members, caregivers that a traumatic brain injury is the worst of all injuries. Today is the 9th year anniversary of my injury…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by Kim Jan 21.

TBI as the war's signature wound
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seems that the…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by TBI Survivors Network Jun 10, 2010.

Do you still dream when sleeping
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I've been a survivor for 6 1/2 years now, and one thing that really confuses me is that I almost never dreamanymore. I know that they (whoever they are) say that most of the times people don't…Continue

Started this discussion. Last reply by mego Sep 2, 2012.

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Glen Brist replied to Richard J's discussion Believe in yourself.
"  I  also  believe  in "you  can  do  it"    ~  and   also   enjoy  this  site  and  my   friends,  because  if   we  feel  down  and  out,   "talking"   to  others,  and  doing  things  for  others,   helps   me....  and    encourages …"
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Glen Brist replied to Richard J's discussion Believe in yourself.
";the  past  with  it's  victories  and  failures  have  flown,  Today  is   mine,  to   use for   self,   others,  or  Christ,   thus  preparing  us  for  the  future.... which  is  tomorrorw,  and   may  all  your  tomorrows,  be   happy…"
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Believe in yourself.

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TBI Survivor ID Card

There is another TBI Survivor ID Card available, and it's free. Just need to send a self-stamped envelope to receive a wallet sized card. Where? In the Perspectives Network website.See More
May 15
Richard J replied to Angela Talamantez's discussion Seeking Stories
"A question please. I do not live in the Spokane area, and do not have a phone. Is it possible to talk via email? My email address is,  richard.johnson184@gmail.com"
Apr 12
Richard J replied to BARB GEORGE's discussion Working?
"Congratulations. Getting back to work as a great gift from your brain telling you it's healing nicely. It is many times really hard work to just keep on keeping on, and getting tired is the worst of it. Give your boss a hug from this forum,…"
Apr 4
Richard J replied to Lee Walter Radick's discussion no solution
"Welcome Lee. Don't let family situations block your recovery, talk to your family and your parents, even if it's only to say Hi. You don't have to talk about  your accident or injury, just talk about life in general. Things you…"
Mar 15
Kim replied to Richard J's discussion I have survived.
"Thank you!  :)"
Jan 21
Richard J replied to Deborah Hammons's discussion My sister has frontal lobe and temporal lobe brain injury from being hit by another car 3 years ago.
"She need to find a doctor who understand TBI, seizures and meds."
Jan 16
Richard J replied to amanda morris's discussion I need some help
"Trust yourself, worrying about "what if's" makes everything harder, your taking care of your 9 year old daughter, so believe in your long term memory as well... and once again TRUST yourself. "
Jan 14
Richard J commented on Angela Betancourt's blog post Surviving a Car Crash is Easy Compared to the Holidays
"Excellent survival kit, thanks for sharing. If it's OK, I'll introduced your "survival kit" at my local TBI support group next week, and gladly credit you as the author/owner."
Dec 5, 2012
Richard J commented on David Reaves's blog post Empathy
"I would say write yourself a "top ten" list so you have something to start with. Maybe a top-twenty list."
Dec 5, 2012
Richard J replied to Lois Feringa's discussion Confused Caregiver
"Hi Lois. Hang in, we survivors do get better, but recovery is a long strange trip. His speech/language issue sounds like aphasia to me. My injury is 9 years ago and my aphasia still happens. I am not able to have the same job I had before, same…"
Dec 4, 2012
Richard J replied to John Donne's discussion I Sing and Laugh But people think it's stupid
"And I agree with Mr. Gosling."
Nov 27, 2012
Richard J replied to Mikey's discussion Is this a symptom? Help!
"Please don't worry about the future. Just be yourself, recover as good and fast as you can. Believe in yourself."
Nov 19, 2012
Shanna T replied to Richard J's discussion I have survived.
"Thanks for this! :-)"
Oct 29, 2012

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I am a brain injury Survivor, Family/Caregiver or professional
Survivor
What do you find most difficult living with a brain injury
Because I believe all survivors need to talk with other survivors.
are you on another social network such as facebook, so we can varify your a real person trying to apply
I also a volunteer for the Golden Valley Courage Center as a co-facilitator for the TBI Support Group.
my or my families brain injury is concidered
TBI

Maybe a little about myself.

In October 2003, I fell off a ladder when cleaning gutters on my house. A month in the first hospital, which including a medically induced coma and many surgeries; a month in a second hospital where the doctors/nurses/therapists were trying to see if I would be able to eat/walk/talk; another month in a third hospital where the doctors/nurses/therapists knew I would eat & walk but speech was almost impossible (the family tells me I talked like the swedish chef in the Muppets). After that third month, I was able to move back home, but had to start occupational & speech therapy right way. Fortunately, I was able to start my therapy in the Courage Center (Golden Valley) which was what I needed. There are a couple therapists who I will never forget, but all of them were tremendous (the Courage Center therapists are angels if you ask me). In 2004, I starting working in my “day” job for 4 hours a week in April; 8 hours a week in May; 12 hours a week in June; 20 hours a week in July; 28 hours a week in August; and then 40 hours a week in September 2004. Oh yeah, full time. Thankfully the company I work for gave me all the time I needed. I also had, and still have, a second job as an instructor for adult education photography classes. I wasn’t able to start teaching again until January 2005, but only because even though my family/friends/co-workers understood that I had, and still have, speech problems, I really couldn’t expect students to understand why their “instructor” had problems talking correctly. Currently my speech problems are minor so teaching isn’t really a problem, although I do tell my “students” that if I’m saying something that doesn’t make any sense at all, to let me know so I can try again.

So what else? Right now I’m not sure and it’s time to start making dinner at home, so we will have to talk later. Take care of yourself and your family.

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TBI Survivor ID Card

There is another TBI Survivor ID Card available, and it's free. Just need to send a self-stamped envelope to receive a wallet sized card. Where? In the Perspectives Network website.

Posted on May 15, 2013 at 11:30am

8th year brainday

Well, today is the 8th year anniversary of my traumatic brain injury. Think I’m going to stop calling today an anniversary, and just call it a “brainday”, one word just like “Elvis” is only one word (was thinking about calling it a tbiday that that word doesn’t sing). Thankfully my 7th year was a “normal” year for me (if such a thing exists). I did get myself more involved with local “survivor support groups”; helped with a family who had a family member survive a TBI;…

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Posted on October 18, 2011 at 10:17am — 1 Comment

Walk for Thought Day, Minnesota

Hello all, Been quite awhile since I’ve posted anything here, so let me tell you what I’m doing now. Have become  a member of  the Brain Injury Association of Mn., and a member of the traumatic brain injury support group in the Golden Valley (Mn) Courage Center. I also attended a conference for the Hennepin County Medical Center (HCMC) for their Patients & Families Care Center. An interesting conference to say the least: a full day where patients or family told HCMC staff concerning what…

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Posted on August 19, 2011 at 12:18pm

Spring is my favorite time of year

Hello all. Been quite awhile since my last post, but thought (to myself) it’s time to write something that hopefully will make sense or help other survivors. Winter has gone and now it’s spring, so I started my walking trips since the weather is better. Before my injury I was a full-time runner, at least 5 to 8 miles a day but running is something I can’t do anymore because my balance is not good at all. Even walking can be a problem, which is why I carry a walking stick with me. I really…

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Posted on March 29, 2011 at 2:46pm — 7 Comments

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At 2:14pm on May 7, 2012, ned bane jr., M.S. said…

From Ned B. How interesting that you mentioned the ID card you carry. I just got a bunch of those from the CDC for free. Lamenated one for me and I'm going to give them out at a health fair booth I'm doing of Friday. ... Keep it rolling my friend!

At 7:35am on April 22, 2012, Rachel gave Richard J a gift
At 3:48pm on February 2, 2012, DENISE ALDRICH said…
Richard, thanks for the words about my family unfortunately they do get it you are. Right but they are very angry with me out the condition and are tired of it. They want it fixed now, like I don't. It's frustrating when I try to express my words they just go unheard. I'll keep trying but thank you , u do understand I just wish they do. Make it a great day denise
At 9:35am on February 2, 2012, stephen d. cunningham said…

Hey Richhard J. I see today is your Birthday have a verry Happy Birthday  and my gift to you is Praying To JESUS

At 7:54am on October 7, 2011, roy huckaby said…

Dreams are dreams and I don't remember many of mine either. I just feel much less rested when I wake up sometimes.

 

Think about it- life changes are very deep and there are some close calls but little is unusual and nothing is new; failure is seldom fatal and few decisions are final. The truth is still the truth! How we handle the truth is very important! - Roy 

At 5:42pm on October 30, 2010, Stephen Korczak said…
October 30, 2010
Hello Mr. Richard J's,

I must tell you I feel good too find someone that has the same feeling as myself. I was begining to think that I was loosing my mind. Thank you very much!
Sincerely,
Stephen Korczak
At 10:06pm on March 10, 2010, Susan Riley said…
Human nature say O.K. what next. Life holds promise ...we might have to look under a few rocks first. I hope the rocks are small. SKR
 
 
 

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